2 weeks remaining

Kotobian Tadau Tagayo do Kaamatan kumaa toinsanan..

I long to celebrate this festival in my hometown together with my families and friends. 4 years since I was posted here in WM, I've not been able to go home once to celebrate it with my families and friends because Kaamatan or the Harvest Festival is not celebrated here in WM and hence no public holiday for me.. Tapun noh poh lah...


Another sad story of mine.... my application to transfer back to Sabah for this coming June has been rejected.Cisss!!!! Will definitely not going to give up and will continue to pray hard to God.. Everything happens for a reason perhaps ...trip mo pujuk diri la kunun ni Just leave the sad stories behind.


It is exactly 2 weeks before our big day. The day Jetro and I have been waiting for such a long time will arrived soon.. Both of us have the same feeling right now, happy and yet nervous.
Since it's only 2 weeks before the big day, perhaps it is a good thing to recall what we've done for the past few months.

• The interview with the priest had been done and finally the date was confirmed and the wedding will be on 12th June 2010 at St. Theresa's Church, Tambunan at 10 o'clock in the morning.
• We are actually legally married and it was done on 17th Mac 2010 after getting the permission from the priest.
  
• The pre-wedding photo shots were completed and we already collect all the pictures together with those big sized pictures with frames. We don't know how to send all the framed photos back to KK. Will figure it out later.
• Finally found the suitable photographer and videographer after a long discussion with my better half. When there are too many choices, we end up choosing nothing and that is very true. When it comes to select the bridal gallery and also the photographer and videographer, we have to really make the smartest choice.. Do we make the right choice? Hopefully yes...
  
• Found the attire for the bride, groom, bride's maid, best man and flower girls.
• My families were in charged in the food and drinks and they told me everything was ok..
• Found the wedding rings and my shoes.
• Saldivilla Wences will be my makeup artist for the day.

Done with those things above but they are still so many things to prepare.. The church decorations, the cake, the decorations for the house and car, the wedding bouquet and so on... My mum called me yesterday to calm me down and said that everything will turn out to be good when the day arrives.. Really ka this? Just hope for the best... I can't wait to go back to Sabah next week...


That's all for now people... till the next post..

Remember, don't drink and drive...Have a wonderful holidays!!!

Hugs and kisses...

9th anniversary

9 years ago, the flirting did work for both of them and they continually love, trust and support each other through thick and thin. Thank you Lord for your wonderful blessings.

~Happy 9th Anniversary to Wina and Jetro~

Kotobian Tadau Mongingia

Kumaa toinsanan mongingia @ sigu.

1 month?

Yes, 1 more month until we become husband and wife.
Time really flies. I still remember 4 months ago when Jetro and I announced to our families that we were ready to take our relationship to the next level. Everyone was happy, even happier than us. Thank God. Can't blamed them for being so excited because we did postpone our big day once sometime last year due to some circumstances.

So the preparations went on straight away after the announcement. Both of us managed to settle down some important things which only us can do them for ourselves. Thanking God again for His guidance and help.

It is hard for us to do the preparations because we are not in Sabah and both of us work in West Malaysia but fortunately, we have families who are willing to help us for the event. Doing the preparations when we are far away is not an easy task to do.

Unexpected things will surely happen all the time and this one really hits us on our face . When both of us busy preparing things together, suddenly a bad news occurred out of no where, Jetro was asked to transfer back to KK That one forced us to look at the positive side and yes he can help with the preparation in Sabah. But..... the sad thing is, I'm all alone here with no one to talk to and have to depend on my own in whatever I do ... This is really a challenge for us and I can't denied that there are a lot of sacrifices involve....
But come what may, we are determine to make it work..

Till the next post.. Will blog about the preparations in the next post..

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Happy Mother's Day

To our dearest mum, Mdm. Mary John...

We love you always...

From us,
Daddy, Edmund, Edwina, Charlene, John Jr, Marcella & Joyce Marie

And to all mothers out there.. wishing you all a blessed mother's day..

Death

I received a very shocking news from my colleague today. Our dearest friend just passed away this early morning due to a sudden stroke. We just met him on a meeting few days ago and now he's gone forever. The death is so sudden and easy. He collapsed at his house, been coma for few hour and the next thing we knew, he's gone. We lost a good teacher and a friend. May his soul rest in peace.


Lately, I've been surrounded by unpleasant news and they all are related to death. Death, the word which probably hated by some or maybe a topic some people will try not to talk about. It's because everyone is afraid to die I guess.. who doesn't anyway?


I've been thinking about it too and I must confessed that I am afraid to die, and it's for one simple reason, I am not ready yet. My father once said, we should not be afraid of death. It's a wonderful thing because death brings us to an eternal life with our Lord Jesus Christ. My dad said it is no use living in this world reaching 100++ years old but burden everyone else. How I wish I can have that kind of mind now. Thanks for the wise thought daddy.


Until now, I still can't imagine myself to be dead. But in the meantime, lets just hope that if the time comes, we are ready to face our Lord face to face. So, be good while we are still on earth, served one another and give thanks in everything. Are these enough for me to enter the kingdom of God? I'll never know. Just hope for the best and be prepared all the time..


Till the next post people..

Rambling

First of all, Happy Labour Day everyone. Hope you all have a wonderful day today.


Its a very fine Saturday, the weather is bright here in Klang today and I'm in a very good mood to stay at home doing my spring cleaning.


I miss my better half... Living alone is not my thing anymore and having a long distance relationship doesn't really suit me anymore.... Hoping the best for my transfer application to be approved so that I can contribute something for the special children in my own place and to be with my families again. Really pity my mum who worried so much about me living alone here. She calls me all the time and doesn't sleep very well every night thinking of me... No matter how many times I tell her that I'm okay here, she just can't get over it. Sorry mum for making you worried.... God please bless my mum... Writing about this make me wanna cry... So let just go to another updates about me.


Our pre-wedding photos finally arrived last week. We're so happy to see all the photos.

The sneak peek...

All my friends around keep asking this same question to me.. " Don't you think it is time for you to further your study now?" "Go and get a master degree lah,"they said. How do I explain to them that getting a master degree is not my priority now. I'm craving to have my own family. I want to have a wonderful husband which I already have and we're striving our goal to have our own kids. Just as simple as that. Do I care when someone says that I'm desperate? Do I care when someone says that I'm just interested in the love making? No, I don't give a damn. Who am I to jugde them, rite. Tik... tok...tik...tok.. My biology clock is ticking and I'm not sure about my fertility level now and I feel like racing against time. For me, I"ll choose my family above all things.. Having a conversation with my boss about this topic yesterday and it was a very interesting one. The lovely lady gave me some good advices. Thank you boss....
Why am I getting so emotional here?? ^_^

Ok people... That's all for now. Have a blessed Saturday everyone. Need to do my spring cleaning now...